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	<description>If you can’t explain it to your grandmother, forget it --- Luc Galoppin</description>
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		<title>By: Luc&#8217;s Thoughts on Organizational Change &#187; Horror, the Ultimate Learning</title>
		<link>http://www.reply-mc.com/2007/11/12/suspect-yourself-first/comment-page-1/#comment-2405</link>
		<dc:creator>Luc&#8217;s Thoughts on Organizational Change &#187; Horror, the Ultimate Learning</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 May 2010 00:31:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] How about suspecting myself first? For instance: I now learned about the breeding season; I investigated comparable incidents; looked at the birds motives, etc.  As a result I can now invest in a hat or better even: avoid the territory this time of the year. Knowing that I cannot control the bird, &#8216;trying harder to be right&#8217; will not help. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] How about suspecting myself first? For instance: I now learned about the breeding season; I investigated comparable incidents; looked at the birds motives, etc.  As a result I can now invest in a hat or better even: avoid the territory this time of the year. Knowing that I cannot control the bird, &#8216;trying harder to be right&#8217; will not help. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Luc&#8217;s Thoughts on Organizational Change &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Meet my Dad</title>
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		<dc:creator>Luc&#8217;s Thoughts on Organizational Change &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Meet my Dad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 13:10:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Finally, involving the whyway people creates buy-in andstimulates their ownership of the project results. Remember: Why-people take a risk because they care. Why-people take the risk of feeling embarrassed because they are committed. Why-people leave their comfort-zone for a good cause. Outside their comfort-zone they are vulnerable. And if we follow common change-management methodology we are most likely to label them as resistant and to treat them in a belittling way. Should we not suspect ourselves in the first place? [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Finally, involving the whyway people creates buy-in andstimulates their ownership of the project results. Remember: Why-people take a risk because they care. Why-people take the risk of feeling embarrassed because they are committed. Why-people leave their comfort-zone for a good cause. Outside their comfort-zone they are vulnerable. And if we follow common change-management methodology we are most likely to label them as resistant and to treat them in a belittling way. Should we not suspect ourselves in the first place? [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Luc&#8217;s Thoughts on Organizational Change &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Rituals and Habits</title>
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		<dc:creator>Luc&#8217;s Thoughts on Organizational Change &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Rituals and Habits</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 20:24:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Instead of labeling them as &#8216;resistance&#8217;, we&#8217;d better approach them with respect, because they define the very boundaries of people&#8217;s comfort zones. Tags: none [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Instead of labeling them as &lsquo;resistance&rsquo;, we&rsquo;d better approach them with respect, because they define the very boundaries of people&rsquo;s comfort zones. Tags: none [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Alvin Choong</title>
		<link>http://www.reply-mc.com/2007/11/12/suspect-yourself-first/comment-page-1/#comment-96</link>
		<dc:creator>Alvin Choong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2008 17:31:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is what I&#039;ll term as original, authentic.

Very well written article, with valuable insight to go into the root of the problem. I think as people are moving on at similar capacity (learning the same stuffs), everyone is equally qualified. It is alot of indifferences nowadays &amp; yea, terming it as resistance is usually an understatement to intentionally differentiate the people at different level of management. To me this is pointless; what is will become, what isn&#039;t will never be.

Going forward, authentic leadership will be important, people that address the &#039;true&#039; issues, of which sometimes is about themselve &amp; their own mistake &amp; shortcomings..

Without the courage to identify that ourselves can sometimes be the problem, things cannot change easily. Your statement on setting the perception of who is the teacher or student, change agent or resistor is indeed the very wrong start that utimately crippled the entire communication system required for successful change.

To start wrongly.. even with the smallest variance can have a very different set of outcome. chaos theory.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is what I&#8217;ll term as original, authentic.</p>
<p>Very well written article, with valuable insight to go into the root of the problem. I think as people are moving on at similar capacity (learning the same stuffs), everyone is equally qualified. It is alot of indifferences nowadays &amp; yea, terming it as resistance is usually an understatement to intentionally differentiate the people at different level of management. To me this is pointless; what is will become, what isn&#8217;t will never be.</p>
<p>Going forward, authentic leadership will be important, people that address the &#8216;true&#8217; issues, of which sometimes is about themselve &amp; their own mistake &amp; shortcomings..</p>
<p>Without the courage to identify that ourselves can sometimes be the problem, things cannot change easily. Your statement on setting the perception of who is the teacher or student, change agent or resistor is indeed the very wrong start that utimately crippled the entire communication system required for successful change.</p>
<p>To start wrongly.. even with the smallest variance can have a very different set of outcome. chaos theory.</p>
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		<title>By: ann michael</title>
		<link>http://www.reply-mc.com/2007/11/12/suspect-yourself-first/comment-page-1/#comment-86</link>
		<dc:creator>ann michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2007 13:56:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brilliant - I&#039;m glad Steve pointed us to you.  This is one of my favorite topics in change management - when the &quot;change agent&quot; is the resistor.  It happens ALL the time.  We&#039;re especially susceptible when we&#039;ve come up with a change management plan, started implementing it, and people offer &quot;suggestions&quot;.  Funny how plans become our &quot;baby&quot; and we forget who/what the true child is (successful and organizationally appropriate change!).  Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brilliant &#8211; I&#8217;m glad Steve pointed us to you.  This is one of my favorite topics in change management &#8211; when the &#8220;change agent&#8221; is the resistor.  It happens ALL the time.  We&#8217;re especially susceptible when we&#8217;ve come up with a change management plan, started implementing it, and people offer &#8220;suggestions&#8221;.  Funny how plans become our &#8220;baby&#8221; and we forget who/what the true child is (successful and organizationally appropriate change!).  Thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle Malay Carter</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michelle Malay Carter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2007 12:52:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Luc,

I love your point number 1.  &quot;Whenever you are confronted with resistance, you should realize that you are the one who perceived and labeled the behavior and the person(s) as resistant in the first place. Perception is everything!&quot;

I&#039;ve been writing a series of posts saying the same thing about assessing employee potential for succession planning and development planning.

Putting managers in charge of assessing potential results in a distorted perception of employee capability because managers are too close to the situation.  This is why I have been arguing that managers-once-removed must be accountable for assessing potential.

See:  http://www.missionmindedmanagement.com/succession-management-whose-eyes-are-focused-on-talent

Regards,

Michelle Malay Carter</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Luc,</p>
<p>I love your point number 1.  &#8220;Whenever you are confronted with resistance, you should realize that you are the one who perceived and labeled the behavior and the person(s) as resistant in the first place. Perception is everything!&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been writing a series of posts saying the same thing about assessing employee potential for succession planning and development planning.</p>
<p>Putting managers in charge of assessing potential results in a distorted perception of employee capability because managers are too close to the situation.  This is why I have been arguing that managers-once-removed must be accountable for assessing potential.</p>
<p>See:  <a href="http://www.missionmindedmanagement.com/succession-management-whose-eyes-are-focused-on-talent" rel="nofollow">http://www.missionmindedmanagement.com/succession-management-whose-eyes-are-focused-on-talent</a></p>
<p>Regards,</p>
<p>Michelle Malay Carter</p>
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		<title>By: Steve Roesler</title>
		<link>http://www.reply-mc.com/2007/11/12/suspect-yourself-first/comment-page-1/#comment-81</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve Roesler</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Nov 2007 22:09:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, Luc,

That&#039;s a clever and fun way to get people on the right track when thinking about changes...

Keep writing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, Luc,</p>
<p>That&#8217;s a clever and fun way to get people on the right track when thinking about changes&#8230;</p>
<p>Keep writing!</p>
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